>sahabat...adalah sesuatu yang diciptakan sang maha segalanya untuk selalu bersama kita, baik itu senang, sedih, susah, ceria, gundah, tawa...tapi itu semua pasti aada akhirnya,...kita hidup di dunia ini pasti akan ada ujung nya...~jangan lah kau terlalu sayang pada seorang wanita, atau pada sahabatmu, karena sesungguhnya kau pasti akan kembali lagi pada yang di atas mu, kembali pada pemilikmu, kemballi pada yang maha pencipta...sahabat...

Minggu, 15 Februari 2009

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Sabtu, 14 Februari 2009

~~100-0~~....

100-0 I Kid you Not

One of the biggest youth sports stories this month comes from of all places, girls basketball. If you haven't heard about this one, you really need to get out more, the story has gone viral. While I would prefer watching paint dry or having splinters of wood driven under my fingernails before I would attend a blowout girls basketball game, there may be a lesson here for us youth football coaches. A small Dallas, Texas High School for ADD and ADHD kids with just 20 female students, lost 100-0 last week. That's right sports fans, Covenant Christian ONE HUNDRED , Dallas Academy ZERO, that is not a typo.

The halftime score was 59-0 and the score at the end of three was 88-0. What was so interesting about this story is that the winning team Covenant Christian, pressed for pretty much the entire game. Dallas Academy rarely got the ball past half court, turning the game into what observers called a "layup drill". Dallas Academy had not won a single game in the last four seasons, not one, so it wasn't like Covenant was up 98-0 and feared Dallas Academy was going to go on a 100 point run of its own. In fact as Covenant approached the century mark, the Covenant head coach and a number of their fans were cheering wildly. I have one word for that, WOW. I'm blown away by the score and more so by the attitude and actions of the head coach and their "fans".

No Apology Required

When Covenant administrative officials apologized for the actions of their coach, the Covenant head coach bulled his neck and said that he did nothing wrong at all. He claimed that his kids were playing the game the way it was intended to be played. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those Stuart Smalley guys, you know the "let's not keep score, play every player the same amount, drink juice boxes and sing Kumbaya together after the game coaches". Remember my teams have gone 97-13, we play to win, we aren't playing Intramurals.

The Value of Competitive Sports

Competitive sports are a great learning environment for most kids, but this coach went over the top in my opinion. When you are ahead there is nothing wrong with insuring the win, working on some skills and tactics your team needs work on to improve, and getting your backups reps at executing the base offense and defense. But when it's obvious you have the upper hand and the other team has no chance at a comeback, why keep pressing? One would think after being able to execute the press to a 88-0 third quarter lead, it would be obvious your kids know how to execute the press against a hapless team of beginners. But what about working on the half court game or ANYTHING other than the press?

What did Covenants kids get out of crushing the spirit of the Dallas Academy team? Maybe the girls learned that when you have someone down and out, kick them some more right in the face, then rub their faces in concrete for good measure.

What Then?

Why not let off because you can? When you are up 88-0 it is obvious to every player, coach, and parent who the best team is, there is no doubt. Heck even the disinterested janitor or the little dog in mommy's purse is going to know that one team was vastly superior to the other team. What harm would have come from not pressing in the last quarter or maybe playing a couple of kids out of position? Instead, Dallas Academy has now canceled the remainder of its games. Was Dallas Academy inept? Sure. Poorly coached, probably. Were any of these girls going to go on to play college basketball? No. But the Academy kids will now be deprived of the chance to grow as human beings and develop the deep relationships that most kids get from playing competitive team sports. I hope the Covenant coach is proud of that. maybe he can put that on his resume when he applies for the Duke or Kentucky job.

Coach Gets His Due

In the end the Covenant Coach was fired a week later for basically disagreeing with the schools decision to apologize to Dallas Academy. Academy may be having the last laugh, Dallas Mavericks owner Mark Cuban is going to host the Academy team in his Suite at a Maverick game. Hopefully this story will teach those of us coaching youth football a valuable lesson in what not to do.While we didn't have any video of this fiasco, Coach Phantom suggested this video clip as a pretty close rendering of how the match probably went. I'm sure the coaches and fans were as giddy as those in this video about their "HUGE" victory.

Dave Cisar-

~~say .."yes".. to you~~

Guys, here's the deal - it really is not that difficult to make a girl say yes to your requests - no matter if you are fat, broke and ugly. How many times have you seen someone with the belly of Charles Bronson and the receding hairline of Harry Wong walking hand-in-hand with a drop dead gorgeous woman? You may feel baffled, but there are ways to get the woman to want you without the deep pockets or the good looks. Read on to discover two killer ways to make any girl say YES to you...

Technique 1: "The Old Fashioned Gentleman". Now in this information age, emails and phone texting have substituted plain old fashioned letters. Now in order to stand out from the crowd (and more importantly, from the other men!), you should send her a handwritten letter to let her know that you fancy her and then ask her out, giving her specifics on the time and place. This is an overlooked but very effective way to get a date - try it and let me know.

Technique 2: "Non Verbal Communications". What is not often discussed is the fact that women in general is very intuitive - and they can easily figure out if you like her even without you saying it outright! Touching her in a non-sexual way (using a technique called 'kino' by master seducers) will subconsciously send signals of affection to her and in the process generate attraction in her to you. It will also make her feel more comfortable with your presence - which is important in order for her to say YES to you.

Now here's one killer BONUS tactic to make any woman fall in love with you....

Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists.

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These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.